The more you know who you are, and what you want, the less you let things upset you.
— Stephanie Perkins, Anna and the French Kiss (via observando)
You need to stop second guessing yourself. When you do that you go from wondering to believing you made an impulsive decision and thats gonna chew you up. Letting the universe unfold as it should means stick to who you are and roll with the punches. If you question your decisions the universe won’t know how to unfold.
Develop a healthy relationship with food. If you’re hungry, eat. If you’re full, don’t eat. Eat vegetables to be good to your body, but eat ice cream to be good to your soul.
Take pictures of yourself frequently. Chronicle your life. Selfies are completely underrated. Even if the pictures are unflattering, keep them anyway. There will always be mountains and cities and buildings, but you will never look the same way as you did in that one moment in time.
Your worth does not depend on how desirable someone finds you. Spend less time in front of the mirror and more time with people who make you feel beautiful.
Close doors. Don’t hold onto things that no longer brings you happiness and do not help you grow as a person. It is okay to walk away from toxic relationships. You are not weak for letting go.
Forgive yourself. We all have something in our pasts that we are ashamed of, but they only weigh us down if we allow them to. Make amends with the old you and work every day to become the person that you’ve always wanted to be.
I was listening to him say that I was pushing him, trying to make him do couple things, and acting like we’re together when we’re not…
And then it just hit me. I deserve someone that wants to be with me, someone that wants to do couple things with me, someone that is crazy about me as I am about them.
And for the first time, I truly believe it.
Nakagin Capsule Tower
Ginza • Tokyo • Japan
via: 1972 project By Noritaka Minami
It’s devaju when your little brother has the same diagnosis as your ex boyfriend. Scary, especially considering your ex died.